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Anonymous asked: "Littles don't have to be submissives, darling" OMG CAN I JUST SAY YOU ARE PURE PERFECTION AND I LOVE YOU AND YOUR OPENNESS AND ACCEPTING NATURE. im sorry i just don't think ive ever heard anyone address this before, and as a dominant little, i thank you

mommy-and-puppy-princess:

littlefoxling:

YOU’RE SO WELCOME!

I’ll be honest, it took me a little while to reconcile that fact in my head—it’s easy to fall into the preconceived notion of what something “should” be. But basically I’ve learned, if there’s a way you think something or somebody SHOULD be or act…..smash that preconception because there is somebody who is that exception and deserves representation too.

I’m curious: how does a dominant little different from a submissive little? Do they dominate their caregivers? Or do they have pets or subs or what? I’ve never heard of this, but I always assumed it was out there.

Hope you don’t mind me answering this and OP’s can obviously add/take away anything they’d wish~

I think a dominant little differs from a submissive little in the way that they get more of a say in what they get, how time is sent in their little mindset, activities they do etc~ Like, rather than a caregiver suggesting they have some tea or hot chocolate and you some colouring, it’d be the dominant little demanding tea or choccie and a colouring book. The activities (etc) are still the same but the little in question has the majority of control. The caregiver, of course, would still be the one giving the care and they may not be submissive themselves, even!
- Without meaning to offend or insult, think of a pushy child demanding things and the caregiver humouring them or giving in and being led about.

I think it would depend on the individuals regarding other pets/subs/etc~
{Hope that helps a little! It’s simply my take on a dominant little/caregiver dynamic, but as I’m not a dominant little myself i may have gotten things wrong! Info is always more accurate straight from the source afterall~}

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Still, I’d rather be working for something, than praying for the rain.

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starlorde:

starlorde:

au where bucky/the winter soldier is stitch and steve is lilo

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tattoolit:
[tw: manic depression & mention of self injury]
Without wanting to sound like a cliche, here’s a little background to my ink: I got it when I was 18 in order to celebrate the positive choices I was making in my life. I have Manic Depression (Bipolar) and the onset of it began when I was around 14/15. With it came the crippling bouts of suicide ideation, mixed episodes, self harm, substance abuse, and of course, low self worth. I’m finally in a place where I can say I’m on the road to recovery, making positive decisions and attempting to stay healthy in both body and mind. I’m medicated, able to allow myself the happiness I find in some days and work through the bad days. It’s an ongoing struggle not many can relate to and this quote is from a poem I love that helped me through the dark phases.'A Lighthouse of Words', by Charles Bukowski.
your life is your life don’t let it be clubbed into dank submission. be on the watch. there are ways out. there is a light somewhere. it may not be much light but it beats the darkness. be on the watch. the gods will offer you chances. know them. take them.you can’t beat death but you can beat death in life, sometimes. and the more often you learn to do it, the more light there will be. your life is your life. know it while you have it. you are marvelous the gods wait to delight in you.

Guys! This is me. I do love my tattoo. And that poem. And my mothers shower curtain.

tattoolit:

[tw: manic depression & mention of self injury]

Without wanting to sound like a cliche, here’s a little background to my ink: I got it when I was 18 in order to celebrate the positive choices I was making in my life. I have Manic Depression (Bipolar) and the onset of it began when I was around 14/15. With it came the crippling bouts of suicide ideation, mixed episodes, self harm, substance abuse, and of course, low self worth. I’m finally in a place where I can say I’m on the road to recovery, making positive decisions and attempting to stay healthy in both body and mind. I’m medicated, able to allow myself the happiness I find in some days and work through the bad days. It’s an ongoing struggle not many can relate to and this quote is from a poem I love that helped me through the dark phases.

'A Lighthouse of Words', by Charles Bukowski.

your life is your life
don’t let it be clubbed into dank submission.
be on the watch.
there are ways out.
there is a light somewhere.
it may not be much light but
it beats the darkness.
be on the watch.
the gods will offer you chances.
know them.
take them.
you can’t beat death but
you can beat death in life, sometimes.
and the more often you learn to do it,
the more light there will be.
your life is your life.
know it while you have it.
you are marvelous
the gods wait to delight
in you.

Guys! This is me. I do love my tattoo. And that poem. And my mothers shower curtain.

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